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HOW TO TELL IF A GUY LIKES YOU
‘Oh God of heaven help me why am I so drawn to this
person? Why on earth is it that I can’t help thinking about this person? It
seems this person is so special that I feel so attached to him. I think I am
beginning to notice some things this person has in common with me. He is tall,
handsome, well built, has a good sense of humor, confident and loving. He’s got
all I need in a guy / she is beautiful, got the shape, sexy and hot, always
wanting to be around me, holding me and acting as if I’m her boyfriend. Should
I say I am in love with this person or simply assume she’s just funny as a
friend? How do I know if this person is coming as a friend or indirectly making
his love intentions known’.
You are welcome to LOVE CORNER where every
issue that has to do with love, sex and relationship will be discussed in order
to enhance a healthy and successful relationship.
This article is based on how you can tell
if a guy/lady loves you.
If you have at one time or the other been
faced with the situation which the person in the extract above is and you have
been confused about knowing if the guy actually wants to be a friend or is in
one way trying to show his interest in getting into a love relationship with
you, do not worry. Here are some tips specially prepared for you to follow.
#1.You always catch him staring at you:
The eyes are not only windows to the man’s soul, it could as well be used to
describe what is going on in his heart especially when it has to do with his
emotions. When you realize that whenever you spot him, he always stares at you
with an emotive look at you, it’s a sign that something emotional is building
up towards you in his heart. That look might be appreciating the beauty you are
made up of and the desire to have it all to himself is very strong in him. If
he stares at you and you catch him doing so, if rather than taking his eyes
away he keeps on looking and accompanies his look with a smile, its an
indication that the guy is so confident and trying to tell you in a non verbal
way that he admires and loves you. And your response means a lot to him at that
instance. But I am not going to talk about your response yet because it’s a
talk for later in this article. As a friend, he begins to create avenue for you
to get close.
#2.Assess his thoughts for the future;
whenever he mentions the fact that he has plan coming up in the future, does he
try to consider making you a part of it. For instance, making statements like
‘I don’t know how it’s going to be like next week going to the movies without
you/alone’. Or he is probably trying to take a strong decision and just because
you gave a little frown he is fast at changing his mind. Whenever he wants to
meet an appointment he calls to tell you and asks how free you are to keep him
company. He gets you involved in every step he takes. Then girlfriend this
could be one of the ways he is putting his green lights on to get you informed
of the fact that his plans are not
complete without you.
#3. Note if he places you above other
priorities: may be he is the very busy type or a workaholic who places his job
or whatever he is doing more serious than any other thing. All his friends, his
colleagues or even his school mates know him for that. He has no time for
relaxation, having fun is even the last thing on his agenda. May be he does not
even have a serious friend because very few people want to get involved with
someone like that. But you notice that whenever you come around, he suspends
whatever he is doing no matter how important and urgent they are just to spend
time with you. Then there is a special feeling lurking somewhere in his heart
just for you. Because at moments like that, he is going the extra mile just to
have you to himself at the expense of other things. In fact you might even
notice the fact that because you are coming around or you guys are together he
decides to cancel other appointments in order to be with you and just to make
you happy. He might even go as far as fixing appointments to the times when he
knows you are fixed up so that by the time you are free, nothing will hinder
you guys from being together. By now the #1 item on his to do list is being
with you. LOVE is growing my dear.
#4. Watch his response to your actions:
have you noticed some changes in his attitudes? Remember he used to be the no
nonsense type who yells at people when they act below expectation or when a
little offence is committed, he nags. Who knows may be he had been the non
challant type who doesn’t care about anything or anyone. He dresses anyhow,
talks without any emotional consideration, rough, dirty and careless. But ever
since you guys have become very close, the no nonsense young man suddenly
became gentle with you that a times even when you fall below his expectations,
he helps you out rather than yelling. Whenever you offend him, rather than
nagging, he lovingly tells you it’s nothing without getting angry. That very
rough guy suddenly starts acting as a clean, careful and well dressed guy who
always wants to leave an impression.
For anything that has to do with you,
he is softening. At this point you also realize that everything he does is just
to ensure you are happy. He doesn’t mind leaving the company of his male
friends to keep you company. He does not even mind using his transport fare to
get you chocolate. There is no doubt that these moves are tended towards
winning your heart towards him. He is feeling love.
#6. Is he beginning to get possessive?
: How does he react when he sees you in the company of other guys? Let’s start
from his facial expression. Hmn, he looks pale right? He looks at you from
wherever he is and tries to smile. But instead of smiling he grimaces. Have you
watched his response when you shake hands with male friends and when you offer
a hug? Damn. He wants to explode. Although he has not asked you out, he feels
by the virtue of your closeness to the other guys, they might whisk you away
from him. At this point, he hardly gets involved with any other lady especially
when you are around all because he doesn’t want to give a wrong impression. As
his ultimate goal is to win you, your feeling means everything to him. In fact
some guys will always want to carry you around like hand bags since he always
wants you around. At this point he wants to get to know everything about you.
That is your background, your feelings, your dos and don’ts, your turn on and
turn off. He sees you as his best confidant. He wants to share everything that
happens to him with you including his past experiences. He might go as far
sending you non romantic messages everyday just for you to keep him in mind and
always get your phone ringing just to know how you are fairing. At this point,
he has discovered that he can’t stop thinking about you. Because you are
special to him in a way he himself can hardly understand. LOVE is blazing.
At this point in time for the guy, preparing
and presenting his proposal is the next thing in line. Before this moment, the
lady’s responses at the various stages mentioned above means a lot to the
realization of the last stage which is the proposal stage. The responses you
give as a lady will tell whether you are desperate, cheap, not worthy of a
relationship, no go area, or romantic. So, the next question is how best a lady
can handle a guy who has been non verbal in his love advances language to make
him want you more than he ever thought he can. How can you make him always run
after you in a bid not to lose you, how can you make him talk when you actually
want him to, how to act tough even when you are already falling in love with
him and how to let him back off from you if his moves are disturbing. How as a
guy you can read the moves of a lady and overcome their tricks. The five love
languages of ladies. For these and more, make it a date with us in the next
edition coming from my desk here at THE LOVE CORNER.- Cee Ma’am.
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